Maxwell 
"Max"                     
Ver Beek 

 

Twins, Maxwell and Samantha Ver Beek

Max Ver beek was Traumatized by his twin, Samantha, very early on.

Max was a twin. He shared the womb with his sister, Samantha. He was stuck at the bottom portion of the womb.  Samantha was high-maintenance at birth and nearly died.  Her recovery was nothing short of a miracle. Girls and their drama. 

Maxwell somehow survived the birthing trauma and life began with a 2-baby handful. Diapers, feedings, baths, repeat. Everything times two. 

A few months after they were born, my wife was diagnosed with aggressive breast cancer. After nearly a four year battle, Max's mother, Lindy, passed away. She was 35. He was just turning four. 

A sweet, gentle soul

Max was a tender-hearted child. He was a quiet boy, but he had a fun side too. He loved to golf, play basketball, video game and go to Hop Cat and Sperry Moviehouse  with his friends. Max was just learning to drive. His 15th birthday would have been on October 15, 2023.

Max Ver Beek
Dustin and Maxwell Ver Beek

WASHING OUR RIDES

Max and Lindy Ver Beek

MAX AND LINDY 

Max and Lindy Ver Beek

Life with twins and 
breast cancer 
2009-2012

LINDY AND MAX, JUNE 2012

SEPTEMBER 14, 2012
Lindy passes away at 35.

2012.

Samantha, Dustin and Max VerBeek

Dad time 24/7

Ethan, Max and Hudson

“Everything...affects everything”

Jay Asher, Thirteen Reasons Why

MAXWELL Ver Beek

Max Ver Beek

Dressing himself

 

Brooklyn, Samantha, Max, Levi and Isaac

Fun with Uncle Clair

BEST FRIENDS

2013 - august 31, 2023

Amy and I blended our families on August 2, 2013. She came into our lives at just the right time. 

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Amy and Maxwell Ver Beek

Max legally ADOPTED BY AMY
August 9, 2019

Maxwell Ver Beek

Fifth grade wax museum

Golf with brothers

Maxwell Ver Beek
Max Ver Beek

creekside 
BASKETBALL

Maxwell VerBeek

driving 
May 2023

August 12, 2023 

 

 

Hijinks with Hudson

Max and Hudson Ver Beek
Maxwell Ver Beek

GOLF WITH PAPA DALE

Maxwell Ver Beek

COAST GUARD FEST 
JULY 28, 2023

BUDDIES

Good friends make everything fun!

August 29, 2023
First week of HIGH school
Zeeland west high school

THURSDAY, August 31, 2023

First Zeeland West home football game.  7 PM

Classmate supplies
Tito's vodka concealed in 
water bottles .  We're told there were six. 

Water bottles are allowed into zeeland Stadium events. 

Max consumes a 
large amount of 
vodka and 
pukes in the 
student section. 

Taunting starts. 
Posting to social 
begins. BULLYING

Max calls me
to pick him up. 

He tells me he 
got sick. 

This was my last text to Max, letting him know I was there to pick him up.  He was visibly drunk

8:10 PM–I arrive to Zeeland Stadium to pick Max up. 

8:24 PMMax arrives to our vehicle walking with the Zeeland West Assistant Principal. Something is majorly off. Max looks different to me. 

8:30 PM–After a private discussion with the Assistant Principal, we departed for home. 

8:33 PMMax begins vomiting in the Jeep and all over himself.

8:45 PM–Arrive home. 
 

*Times are approximated. based on calls/text. and home security.

1
SEPT
2023

Death Day

6:15 AM *

Thought to be the time Max crashed 100+ mph into a tree in Hamilton, Michigan. There was a fiery explosion. Max likely perished instantly. 

Dispatch
Human Grief

BLIND-SIDED 
September 1, 2023 
HORROR & Disbelief

THE TRUTH  
BEGINS TO SHOW ITSELF

Human Grief

Overwhelming grief was the inspiration for this AI-enhanced artwork.  

UNREAL 
September 2, 2023 
GUT-WRENCHING GRIEF

Grief AI Art by Dustin Ver Beek

"GRIEF WAVES"
 Original AI-enhanced art by Dustin Ver Beek

Wednesday, September 6, 2023
PRIVATE Funeral for Max

Max was cremated
and remains with us

September 7, 2023

New information was flowing in along with more painful truths. 

Amy Ver Beek at crash site

SEPTEMBER 20, 2023 

 

 

An acutely emotional visit to Max's crash site. 





September 21, 2023

3:35 AM


 




 

Awake and wandering, missing my son. 

Max VerBeek

October 2, 2023

Photos and memories from birth to 14.75 years old.  To add images, contact us.

Max the Frog

MAX VER BEEK

For Max 

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